Death of Grandparents and how to cope with the decisions...help please?

My own family went through something like this years ago, and yes it does cause some hard feelings sometimes. You should try to talk to the most level headed person involved that you are closest to. Its hard to know what the right thing to do is in family situations a lot of the time. They are just talking right now, and maybe their view is sound, maybe no one is able to keep the financial end of it going. Still, you should open up and let your feelings be heard, it is part of grieving, and will help you get through it no matter the outcome. I am sorry for your loss.