For those who say women make a conscious decision to use emotion over logic?

How can women choose to use emotion when they don't have any control over it. They put makeup on to feel an emotion, they get with a guy to feel an emotion. They don't have any control over their emotions so how can they successfully use them or become fulfilled. Their fulfillment in emotion is completely based on the actions of others, their whole happiness is based on how others treat them. If a man never asks her out how is she going to feel loved, if a man never looks at her how is she going to feel good about herself. This is why if you isolate a woman in the woods by herself she will go crazy. No amount of makeup or slutiness can make her feel good about herself when she is alone. She cant achieve that emotion and will soon lose her mind.